Monday, June 26, 2006

wondrn' what?!?

Good day again bloggers!!!
I'm just wondrn' a bit about this experience I have this morning if how will I consider it, either a Victory or a Trial?.!?...Maybe you could help me decide. Here it goes....This morning, as I wake up I've got a call from a good friend of mine that she's engaged and plans for the wedding is very fast approaching ,in fact I'm invited and maybe it would took us so long before we will be seeing each other again...They say if you have found that right person for you must be considered a victory but what if it's too early to tackle things like that...Her future husband is quite older than her but what bothers me is that she's no longer interested to continue her studies and gets so excited to get married...I asked her if she's pregnant then she answered me,"Dili uy...nahigugma lang jud ko yen...".Yen, that's what she calls me...I'm so shocked with her answer...Thinking why being in a hurry...I have so many questions in my mind but I just couldn't asked her because I fear that I might disappoint her because I know she's expecting me to support her....
The question is: is it a victory because she have found what she thinks will make her happy?!? should I be happy for her too?...or...Is it a trial between us because I just couldn't help it question her decision...or am I being selfish?....hmmmm.....I don't know yet....I just really don't know....Well, ciao for now....till next time....
God bless everyone....

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think i know her. Early marriage? main reason would be because the girl is pregnant. I doubt her if she is telling the truth.

Aside from that, i don't think that the guy really love her. I am having a second thought with that. And as what i have observed, that man is after of the money. He is not a good provider. Sa mga lakad man ata nila siya ang gumagastos eh. Hayy...guys like that! It pisses me off.

I should say, kung nabuntis lang "huwag nlng magpakasal oi". I wonder why she stopped schooling. She is still young, she deserve someone that would love her much.

Ambot oi, pero sa tinood lang..lisod tambagan ang mga tao nga inlove kay mahimo man gud nga mga buta ug bungol sama sa akong kaagi. [hehehehehhe]

Anonymous said...

More suggestion: have a heart to heart talk to her so that you would know the very reason of that early marriage...then start from there...

But, if she would not listen. I don't know what's next, let her decide basta you have already done your part.

Regards pala sa kanya ha. Sayang i can't communicate with her right now kasi my cellphone is still on vacation.

Lets just continue to pray for her.

Anonymous said...

"lisod tambagan ang mga tao nga inlove kay mahimo man gud nga mga buta ug bungol"

grabe akong hagakgak, almz pgka basa nko ani..lolz! taw-anan mn ka,ui. pero tama bya jud...naai gyud uban nga mawala na sa ilahang pagka rational kung gugma na ang mueksena. ana jd tingali at most times.

coco said...

there so many things that can make people happy... as of your friend well it's her some kind of heart's desire of getting married to the man she thinks she longs for and that makes her happy..

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